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Post# 571480   1/26/2012 at 14:21 (4,471 days old) by Unimatic1140 (Minneapolis)        

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I am so sorry to have to let everyone know that our dear friend and long-time automaticwasher.org member Terry Lattz (tlee618) passed away last night. I'm am too distraught right now to say much more than this as Terry was one of Fred and my closest friends.

Fred Nelson and Charlie Watrous composed this post for Vacuumland and I'm going to share it here:

It is with a sad and broken hearts that we have news regarding one of our most beloved members. Terry Lattz passed away Wednesday at about 7:15 PM at Fred Nelson's house, known as Tarantula Arms. It is believed he had an embolism. His death was instantaneous without any pain or suffering, he was with his vacuum family and in his home state.

Terry arrived in Chicago after flying up from Tampa. He then took the train to downtown to meet with Fred. Together, they rode on the train to Geneva, IL, so Fred could retrieve his car. Charlie was already at Tarantula Arms. He had arrived early from Charlotte and was awaiting the boys. Fred said Terry was perfectly fine on the train trip and the way home in the car. When he was coming into the house, Fred and Charlie both noticed right away that something was terribly wrong. Terry was having moderate to severe mobility problems with some confusion.

We helped him into the house, (literally carried him by his arms), got him seated and let him rest with a glass of Sprite. After some time, he rallied and seemed a bit better. He was totally lucid during this time and kept saying, "I'm fine, I'm fine." To keep life simple at this point we decided to order some dinner in rather than going out. While awaiting the delivery, we all had fun, "chat", and Charlie started a fire that Terry enjoyed.

When it came time to sit down, Terry lapsed into a second, "episode", of lack of motor skills and co-ordination with his legs and arms. Fred and Charlie immediately, without any question, loaded Terry into the car to go to the Emergency Room. Long story short, he was there about 2 hours and treated for, "Labrythinitis". (Google it.) He was given medicine and we returned back to Tarantula Arms after a trip to the all night drug store. Fred and Charlie carried Terry, (a mere 143 lbs., that seemed very heavy as he was out like a light from the medication), inside and put him to bed on the couch. Fred and Charlie made mental notes and finally ate dinner at 11 P.M.

Wednesday, Fred was up early as usual to go to his office and Terry seemed markedly improved but still not, "our Terry", as he usually was scurrying about the kitchen and totally in charge of that area. He was coherent and said he felt much better. Then Charlie came down around 7:30 A.M. and he and Terry enjoyed an hour or more of fun gossip and planning for the rest of the week. Charlie left at 9 A.M. to go to Milwaukee to meet with Tania and Duane to finalize hotel plans for convention 2013. They had a wonderful time together and got the business taken care of.

Later, at Tania's house, they spoke with Terry on the phone to check in. Charlie and Tania were planning to return to Fred's on Thursday. About an hour later, Fred called Charlie to say Terry had collapsed after eating dinner. All had been fine and Terry had done some of his favorite house chores so Fred thought things were getting better. Fred said the paramedics were there and taking him to the hospital and asked Charlie to return to Tarantula Arms a.s.a.p.

Charlie packed up Tania and his stuff and they arrived at about 10 P.M. to find Fred home and he did in fact confirm that Terry was gone and had never been revived. A period of sadness for Fred, Charlie and Tania followed. Then Charlie and Tania went to the hospital to say good bye to Terry. A lot had changed in just about 24 hours.

Now our club has changed and will never be the same without Terry's gentle love, kindness, generosity, volunteerism, positive input and the list goes on and on. Terry has touched the lives of hundreds and we hope he knows this. A hole has been created in the hearts of many by his passing. We will miss his fun, encouraging posts, welcoming of new members and endless energy at the conventions that he was so much a part of. Our regular gatherings at Tarantula Arms will never be the same. We will always miss Terry and keep him alive in our hearts and club gatherings.

In closing, we share this line from, "The Wizard Of Oz", when the Wizard speaks to the Tin Woodman toward the end: "Remember my sentimental friend, the size of person's heart is not measured by how much he loves but by how much he is LOVED by others." Terry was loved by all--a very fitting legacy.

PS-Please refrain from calls to Tarantula Arms as there is a lot going on. We thank you for respecting this. As soon as funeral information is available, it will be posted here as well as any other pertinent information. We do know that a funeral will be held next week in Momence, IL, as of this writing. Please read the forum for further details.

Thank you and our best to all,

Fred Nelson and Charlie Watrous


I know I'm breaking my own rules by posting this kind of message in the Imperial Forum, but I thought it would be the right thing to do in Terry's honor considering how much he loved vintage washing machines. Please post any pictures you have of Terry in this thread. Tears were running down my face as I picked out these pictures from the archives and as I now write this post. More later, for now here are some pictures of our beloved friend...





Post# 571481 , Reply# 1   1/26/2012 at 14:22 (4,471 days old) by Unimatic1140 (Minneapolis)        

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Post# 571508 , Reply# 25   1/26/2012 at 14:45 (4,471 days old) by gansky1 (Omaha, The Home of the TV Dinner!)        

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It is true, Terry touched everyone he met with his kind heart and gentle, loving soul.   Those friends and family here who knew him are just devastated, I will never forget the despair and loss in my mother's voice when I had to tell her the news this morning.   He was truly loved by all of us.

He meant so much to so many, it's difficult to put into words the loss and sadness we all carry with us. 

 

 
 

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From just a short few weeks ago...


Post# 571512 , Reply# 29   1/26/2012 at 14:54 (4,471 days old) by gansky1 (Omaha, The Home of the TV Dinner!)        

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New Years 2012

 


Post# 571513 , Reply# 30   1/26/2012 at 14:58 (4,471 days old) by GadgetGary (Bristol,CT)        
I am so shocked and saddened by the news

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I met Terry at the Tuscon Wash-in in 2007.

We have remained email friends since.

He and Rick visited New Britain Ct about two years ago to do research at Landers, Frary and Clark in New Britain.

 

He came to my restaurant(formerly The Silo in Farmington), and the next day, we had a great dinner at my house before he and Rich finished their research.

 

Terry

R.I.P. my dear friend

 


Post# 571514 , Reply# 31   1/26/2012 at 14:58 (4,471 days old) by HotpointFan (United Kingdom)        

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I have not communicated with him via this site, but I have seen his postings.

Looking at his photos on here and aw.Vacuumland make me feel even more sad, seeing pictures of a once very alive man.

Terry, you and your family and all close friends are in my prayers tonight.

God bless.

Jacob Nolan


Post# 571515 , Reply# 32   1/26/2012 at 15:00 (4,471 days old) by gansky1 (Omaha, The Home of the TV Dinner!)        

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A quick video of Terry two years ago and the KitchenAid Bloodbath that my kitchen became when we decided to make our own ground beef - we've laughed about this since then...




Post# 571516 , Reply# 33   1/26/2012 at 15:00 (4,471 days old) by mayfan69 (Brisbane Queensland Australia)        
Sorry to hear this

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Sorry to hear this news Robert, you have my sympathies

Even more shocking that it happened so quickly.

Regards
Leon


Post# 571517 , Reply# 34   1/26/2012 at 15:00 (4,471 days old) by foraloysius (Leeuwarden, Friesland, the Netherlands)        

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That's devastating news! I'm so sorry that you have to bring the news of such a terrible loss. Terry was kind, gentle, modest and giving and always interested in other people. We have lost a wonderful friend in the true meaning of the word.

Post# 571519 , Reply# 35   1/26/2012 at 15:01 (4,471 days old) by RevvinKevin (Tinseltown - Shakey Town - La-La Land)        

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Oh no Robert... this saddens me SO much to hear this!   I'm here at work and just saw this thread, what horrible news.

 

As I was reading, then looking at the photos I was brought to tears as well.   I then saw the photo of Terry with holding the box of Tide with the hair dryer attachment on his head which brought a smile and made me chuckle.

 

I was fortunate enough to have met Terry at the Wash-In you & Fred hosted in May 2010.   What a wonderful, gentle, caring sole he was, just a wonderful, wonderful man, I loved him instantly!    I had kept in contact with him since and was just thinking it was time to check in again.

 

My heart goes out to everyone who knew Terry and especially you and Fred.   Thank you for breaking your own rule, Terry would really appreciate it!

 

Sincerely,

Kevin


Post# 571520 , Reply# 36   1/26/2012 at 15:04 (4,471 days old) by Pulsator (Saint Joseph, MI)        

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Devastating news! Terry was a wonderful, kind, and loving person! He was one of the first few people that I connected with in person from this site. I will always remember how kind and helpful he was! My strongest memory of him was at the Tucson wash-in loading dishes into 3 different KitchenAid dishwashers and chatting away with me! He will be sorely missed. I wish that I had the opportunity to spend more time with him.

Post# 571521 , Reply# 37   1/26/2012 at 15:05 (4,471 days old) by StrongEnough78 (California)        

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Awwwww I am so sorry to hear of this news! I do wish I could have met Terry, I have heard so many wonderful things about him. Please pass my condolences to his family and other friends for me. Robert and Fred, my heart goes out to you two. Losing a close friend like that is just as painful as losing a family member. I always have an open ear and a cyber-shoulder for you if you or anyone for that matter needs it. XOXO

Post# 571522 , Reply# 38   1/26/2012 at 15:06 (4,471 days old) by CircleW (NE Cincinnati OH area)        
Very sad news

Robert and Fred, I'm stunned and so very sorry to hear about Terry passing away. I'm just glad he was with his friends and not alone, and that he didn't suffer.

I never met him, but always enjoyed reading his posts on AW. I know he will be missed by everyone.


Post# 571524 , Reply# 39   1/26/2012 at 15:16 (4,471 days old) by turquoisedude (.)        

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This is a sad day in ApplianceLand.... I only met him in person once, but I am delighted that I had the chance to do so.  He was such a kind and thoughtful person.

Robert, please let us know if there is anything that can be done 'in memorium' for Terry. 

I am not an extremely emotional person, but there is a huge lump in my throat as I write this.

Terry, I know you are looking down on us from the 'Aberdeen Farm' in the sky...


Post# 571525 , Reply# 40   1/26/2012 at 15:18 (4,471 days old) by roto204 (Tucson, AZ)        
So much the champion of joy

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In more ways than I can count, Terry was above all else a perennial optimist. And, by "optimist," I don't mean merely someone who maintained a positive outlook, although he did, and it never dimmed, not in the slightest.

By "optimist," I mean that he taught us to value every second of life, to cherish the minutiae as much as the grand plans. He brought us together, showed us the meaning of joy, and fun, and lightness, and neverending, easygoing happiness. When we, the incessant pragmatists, mired in things like logistics and expense, Terry brushed it all away with incomparable flourish--you were put here to enjoy your life, and love others. What, then, were you really allowing to get in the way?

He was magic and Betty Crocker incarnate; countless were the mornings that he had buzzed around the kitchen and made coffee and breakfast casserole before some of us could even roll out of bed. There was a pervasive halo of delight that surrounded him, and more than any other person on Earth--and those of you who met him know what I mean--to know him was to love him. For that matter, to meet him was to love him. He wasn't just disarming, and sweet, and funny. He was genuine.

I will miss him, not just because we suffer such a loss in his absence. I will miss him because he won't be just an e-mail or phone call away anymore, and I still haven't truly been able to get my heart to understand that, despite mourning that all day.


Post# 571531 , Reply# 41   1/26/2012 at 15:30 (4,471 days old) by StrongEnough78 (California)        
For Terry and for those close to him........

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I just wish Cynthia Fee recorded a full length version as it is my favorite. Rest in Peace Terry XOXOXO

CLICK HERE TO GO TO StrongEnough78's LINK


Post# 571536 , Reply# 42   1/26/2012 at 15:33 (4,471 days old) by rickr (.)        

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I am so sorry to learn of this. Terry was one of the nicest people I have ever met.
Indeed, this is a great loss.


Post# 571537 , Reply# 43   1/26/2012 at 15:33 (4,471 days old) by norgeway (mocksville n c )        
I cant think of but one thing at this moment!

And it probably isnt appropriate but im going to say it anyhow..I ll be damned! One of my favorite people who had a wonderful kind heart, I dont know why but it makes me mad to think such a wonderful person is gone, we had talked about him coming to visit us, and now we will forever be deprived of his wonderful company.. This makes me sick..Hans

Post# 571542 , Reply# 44   1/26/2012 at 15:38 (4,471 days old) by Frigilux (The Minnesota Prairie)        

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So sorry to hear of Terry's passing. While I never met him, it's obvious he was a wonderful, generous, much-loved guy at AW and Vacuumland. My condolences to all of you who knew him.

Post# 571543 , Reply# 45   1/26/2012 at 15:39 (4,471 days old) by macboy91si (Frankfort, KY)        
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I met Terry in 2010 at John's Wash-in and he was a very pleasant individual. I know others knew him very well, but I am so saddened to hear this. Thank you for informing us of the news :(

-Tim


Post# 571547 , Reply# 46   1/26/2012 at 16:09 (4,471 days old) by paulc (Edinburgh, Scotland)        

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Terrible news, my thoughts are with Terry's family and friends xxx

Post# 571548 , Reply# 47   1/26/2012 at 16:09 (4,471 days old) by chromacolor ()        

I'm still in a bit of shock, as I'm just heard of this.
Terry was such a kind,sweet person.
It was a pleasure to have known him, and I will miss him greatly.


Post# 571552 , Reply# 48   1/26/2012 at 16:19 (4,471 days old) by lebron (Minnesota)        

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Fortunate enough to have met this amazing person, you will be missed Terry.

Post# 571554 , Reply# 49   1/26/2012 at 16:31 (4,471 days old) by redcarpetdrew (Fairfield, CA)        

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I have never met Terry but have heard enough about him to know that this was a wonderful person with a big heart and positive attitude to match. I am unhappy not just because of Terry's passing before I could meet him but that many of my extended family here at AW are in such distress. My love and support to all of you and to his family.

 

Drew


Post# 571555 , Reply# 50   1/26/2012 at 16:32 (4,471 days old) by aldspinboy (Philadelphia, Pa)        

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I'm sadden to here this news.
I met Terry at John's & Tom's Wash-in in Beltsville.
He was the nicest person that night and glad to be in his company for the first time.

Good conversation that night and he always had nice things say in my threads .
He always brought or created a family feeling here and sorely will be missed.
I wish I could have more time as well with him.
Peace To you Terry.

Robert & Greg the pictures are beautiful.
Here are the pictures from the wash in .

I took this one with Paul.


Post# 571557 , Reply# 51   1/26/2012 at 16:36 (4,471 days old) by aldspinboy (Philadelphia, Pa)        

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Pic 2.Terry With Steve and others sorry about the names.

Darren k.


Post# 571560 , Reply# 52   1/26/2012 at 16:48 (4,471 days old) by Jetcone (Schenectady-Home of Calrods,Monitor Tops,Toroid Transformers)        
A salute to a wonderful friend

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A prayer for your Soul that it is already at the big shopping mart in the sky - and in the shiney Vacuum section ahead of all the sales!

 

Terry!

I am so glad we had this summer , it was wonderful with you!

Love Forever Jon & Artey

 

 


Post# 571561 , Reply# 53   1/26/2012 at 16:50 (4,471 days old) by Jetcone (Schenectady-Home of Calrods,Monitor Tops,Toroid Transformers)        
More memories

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The breakfast chats:  Terry at ease.


Post# 571563 , Reply# 54   1/26/2012 at 16:54 (4,471 days old) by Jetcone (Schenectady-Home of Calrods,Monitor Tops,Toroid Transformers)        
Fair Seasons

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Terry


Post# 571565 , Reply# 55   1/26/2012 at 16:55 (4,471 days old) by lovestowash (St. Petersburg, FL)        
"T-bird"...

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That has always been our nickname for Terry, since we met him in 2000...
Jeff and I spend a couple of weeks in Florida each year, Summer and Christmas, and always include Terry when he's available...
We were fortunate enough to attend one of his "vac-u-thons"...
A few snapshots follow...
We miss him dearly...

George


Post# 571566 , Reply# 56   1/26/2012 at 16:57 (4,471 days old) by lovestowash (St. Petersburg, FL)        

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Birthday...

Post# 571567 , Reply# 57   1/26/2012 at 16:58 (4,471 days old) by lovestowash (St. Petersburg, FL)        

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At the beach, fighting off the paparazzi...

Post# 571568 , Reply# 58   1/26/2012 at 16:59 (4,471 days old) by westyslantfront ()        

Terry was a very special person. He got along and is loved by everyone in both
automaticwasher.org and vacuumland. I will miss him and his annual visits to
Roger here in Tucson.

Rest eternal grant unto Terry.
Let light perpetual shine upon him.




Ross


Post# 571569 , Reply# 59   1/26/2012 at 17:00 (4,471 days old) by lovestowash (St. Petersburg, FL)        

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Best buds...

Post# 571570 , Reply# 60   1/26/2012 at 17:03 (4,471 days old) by lovestowash (St. Petersburg, FL)        

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We love you Terry.

Post# 571571 , Reply# 61   1/26/2012 at 17:12 (4,471 days old) by mixfinder ()        
I Know I must Have a heart I Can Feel It Breaking

In our group Terry was like a loving mother, brother, best friend, advisor, councilor, tender shoulder, always filled with joy and love and hope, the perennial peace maker, the silent wonder who did more work than 20 people, smiling the whole time and never breaking a sweat. The picture of fred and Terry polishing the floor and cooking together speak volumes. If too much time passed without hearing something Terry would always reach out to make sure I was okay. His loss with in the organization of Automatic Washer and Vac-Land cannot be measured now but when the wheels start wobbling on so many of the daily duties we will all find out how much he did. We are an odd society that cannot embrace death as the ultimate intimacy and the portal to the next cycle of life. I can only imagine how heart breaking this was for Fred to be alone with Terry and for Charlie and Tania who were all the closet of the close, but for just a second think of what it might have been like for Terry if he was home alone. For your offering of love and care, Fred and Charlie, you made what might have been a frightening and isolated experience one of love and peace for this man we all loved so much. As an observer it always seems Terry gave and yet he always went home alone. I prayed and wished for someone deserving of such a fine person to enter Terry's circle so he would have fun and company in the times he was in Florida. Growing old brings with it a set of fears and concerns, will I keep my mind, will I become wheel chair bound, how long can I stay in my home, what if I become disabled, what if it hurts or death becomes a long drawn out performance? Terry flew into the arms of his closest of close and there, looking into the face of his loving Fred he flew to next destination. I am also crying not for Terry but for myself because of the void in my consciousness that it creates and quite selfishly because I know it will impact the smooth flow of both clubs. I love Terry and I love this group as well that so perfectly comes together in times of hurt, loss and grief. We are the family we all wish we had. Greg, Robert and Fred I know it’s hard to be isolated in Minneapolis and Omaha and I hope you'll all be together soon to support each other. For now I say goodbye to my tender friend, God Speed.
Kelly


Post# 571572 , Reply# 62   1/26/2012 at 17:18 (4,471 days old) by norgeway (mocksville n c )        
KELLY!

I think you hit the nail on the head...as my Mother used to say!

Post# 571574 , Reply# 63   1/26/2012 at 17:22 (4,471 days old) by 1966_mustang ()        
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So sorry to here this. My prayers go out to the family and friends...

Post# 571579 , Reply# 64   1/26/2012 at 17:36 (4,471 days old) by chestermikeuk (Rainhill *Home of the RailwayTrials* Merseyside,UK)        
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Just stunned to hear about Terry, he was the gentlest of men with a heart of pure gold, always ready to help and cook up a feast!!! just glad he was with friends he called family and that he wasnt on his own.....we just dont realise how fragile life is.....just makes me realise how many more people from AW I (and all of us) can call friends.....and all through meeting through washer, vacs, and small appliances!!! funny where life takes us...a lesson to enjoy life as we can...

Rest Well Terry

Mike


Post# 571580 , Reply# 65   1/26/2012 at 17:40 (4,471 days old) by swestoyz (Cedar Falls, IA)        

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I'm truly at a loss of words right now, with little to grasp beyond the memories shared among many of this fine example of a human being.

On June 25th, 2005, Terry was the first face for me of AW, and greeted me with a warm smile. He greeted us all the same, and wished each of us our very best on departure, each time.

This man never wavered in character and will always be a standard that many will cherish forever.

Ben


Post# 571582 , Reply# 66   1/26/2012 at 17:41 (4,471 days old) by swestoyz (Cedar Falls, IA)        

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I've always wished I had gotten both Jamie and Terry in focus for this shot. Still...

Post# 571583 , Reply# 67   1/26/2012 at 17:47 (4,471 days old) by washernoob ()        

This truly breaks my heart.

I had the divine pleasure of meeting Terry a few times.

If you have ever met Terry, you would know right away that he was an enthusiastic, and fabulous friend to anyone. He was never angry, and always engaging in conversation.

He was a wonderful cook, a smart "historian", and the best guest anyone could invite in their home.


Terry, as you look down at us, know that we will always have you in our hearts, and prayers.


I am forever grateful for your kindness to me especially, and for everything you have done, and helped me come out of my shell around others like us,


Thank you, Terry, For the wonderful memories,

Brandon



(Terry putting the freshly restored Kirby to good use)


Post# 571585 , Reply# 68   1/26/2012 at 17:56 (4,471 days old) by Toggleswitch (New York City, NY)        

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oh Terry,

Light, love peace and blessings to you and to those who grieve for you.

It was my dream and hope to work as Terry's sous-chef at an AW event; something that will now never come to pass. The man was a whiz in so many areas of life including the kitchen! We worked side-by-side in Ross' kitchen in Tucson Arizona preparing a meal for that leg of the magnificent three-day three-event wash-in. That time, I was playing bitch-in-charge and Terry was an amazing help. We clicked famously in the kitchen!

It was my greatest joy and honor to be around him, to confide in him, and to enjoy his most up-beat positive energy. "They don't build them like that anymore"


I again saw Terry in Connecticut (the next state over from my New York State) when he came to visit our very own GadgetGary, as Terry and a vacuum-site buddy were exploring the "Universal" (brand-name) museum locally (manufacturer of coffee-makers and other small electric home appliances).

Terry and I were sitting next to each other on the couch when all of a sudden there was a warm liquid running down our legs. (Damn mister, are you happy to see me? LOL). We both took pause, then we died laughing when we realized Gary's dog had an upset stomach and emptied it on us. Off with the trousers. We were laughing so hard we were crying.

Oh Terry I miss you already. I am so happy there was no pain or suffering, no prior knowledge of when you were to be "called home" , and that you were in your home state among loved ones who were both friends and family on your day of transitioning to the next world/plane/dimension/life.

We live on so long as we are remembered. May his memory be eternal! AMEN.

The link is a religious ceremony to commemorate the departed. Religious, from my brand of "voo-doo" (religion). Don't open it if you think you will be offended.
Sorry, but the Christian Orthodox way is the only way I know.

PEACE TO ALL.


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Post# 571586 , Reply# 69   1/26/2012 at 18:10 (4,471 days old) by Gyromatic (St. Paul MN.)        
SORRY TO HERE THE SAD NEWS!!!!!!!!!!

So sorry to here the sad news.I did not know Terry very well,but the one thing I will remember is how when we met he always knew my name and was always very kind to me.Rest In Peace Terry.You will be remembered by me as a KIND AND GENTLE PERSON.

Post# 571588 , Reply# 70   1/26/2012 at 18:17 (4,471 days old) by Toggleswitch (New York City, NY)        

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Post# 571591 , Reply# 71   1/26/2012 at 18:26 (4,471 days old) by Yogitunes (New Jersey)        

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So sorry to hear this news......I met Terry at the DC wash-in.......what a great person to meet and know.....an absolute gentle soul......he will be missed, but never forgotten.....

Post# 571593 , Reply# 72   1/26/2012 at 18:28 (4,471 days old) by Tomturbomatic (Beltsville, MD)        

Terry is the sort of soul that, as we say in the south, did not have to change clothes to enter Heaven. Having been blessed with a near death-type experience, I don't believe anyone is shortchanged by transitioning from this world to the spirit world. It's only painful for those of us left behind. I firmly believe that, while we will miss him for a while, we will get to be with him again in the realm where all of the good dreams come to fruition, where we can talk with all of the inventors, designers and engineers about their creations and never get tired or have to break up the visit to go home or back to the work-a-day world and where the laundry studio will always be full of friends. In the meantime, we will be storing up memories of experiences to share with Terry at our next meeting where he will have picked out the most interesting people and experiences to share with us because that is just the sort of soul Terry is.

Post# 571600 , Reply# 73   1/26/2012 at 18:49 (4,471 days old) by maytagmike (Burlington, Vt)        
sad passing

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even though I had never met Terry, the passing is sad. God bless you Terry and may you rest in eternal peace

Post# 571606 , Reply# 74   1/26/2012 at 19:22 (4,471 days old) by jons1077 (Vancouver, Washington, USA)        
Missing Terry...

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I don't know when I last posted on AW.org but I couldn't let this one pass. It says a lot to miss someone once they are gone but Terry was someone that I missed long before he left. Terry was old-fashioned and in such a good way. He always had something nice to say and always made you feel like you were at home even in someone else's home!

I still remember how hard Terry and Kelly worked in Roger's kitchen in Tucson several years ago. Like others have said, Terry was a welcoming party to those gatherings and made inexperienced newcomers like me feel right at home. In many ways he was the only reason I would still come back to this site.

What a good man.


Post# 571607 , Reply# 75   1/26/2012 at 19:22 (4,471 days old) by mattywashboy (Perth, Western Australia)        

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Very sorry to hear of this.

When I first explored this site a few years back and was looking through photos, Terry was always there in almost all of them. I felt in some distant way that I knew him, even though we had never met.

The above posts show he was an amazing person and touched the hearts and lives of so many, may he rest in peace.

I am going to share a poem someone once gave me when I experienced a close death :

*Author Unknown*

We thought of you with love today,
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday,
And days before that too.

We think of you in silence,
We often speak your name;
All we have now are memories,
And your picture in a frame.

Your memory is our keepsake,
With which we will never part;
God has you in his keep,
We have you in our heart.

It broke our heart to lose you.
But you didn't go alone,
For a part of us went with you...
The day God took you home.




My thoughts are with you through this terribly difficult time.

Matt

xxx


Post# 571608 , Reply# 76   1/26/2012 at 19:23 (4,471 days old) by jons1077 (Vancouver, Washington, USA)        
Thank you Terry

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candlelight for you my friend

Post# 571610 , Reply# 77   1/26/2012 at 19:26 (4,471 days old) by peteski50 (New York)        
Terry!

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This is so unbelieveable. I spoke to Terry at times and loved him. He is a kind hearted soul. I don't know what to say. Terry you will be very well missed.
This was taken at the last convention.
Peter



Post# 571611 , Reply# 78   1/26/2012 at 19:28 (4,471 days old) by HooverWheelAway ()        

This has been such a rough day.  Many ups and downs... Everyone is saying such beautiful things -- it's hard not to tear up when reading through them. 

 

I've been going through some of my photos tonight...

 

Loading the dishwasher, one of his favorite things to do:


Post# 571612 , Reply# 79   1/26/2012 at 19:28 (4,471 days old) by HooverWheelAway ()        

Making breakfast...


Post# 571613 , Reply# 80   1/26/2012 at 19:29 (4,471 days old) by HooverWheelAway ()        

Making the infamous "overnight waffle batter"


Post# 571614 , Reply# 81   1/26/2012 at 19:30 (4,471 days old) by HooverWheelAway ()        

What happened in the fridge with aforementioned waffle batter overnight...  :-)


Post# 571615 , Reply# 82   1/26/2012 at 19:31 (4,471 days old) by HooverWheelAway ()        

Tania and Terry, dressed to impress.


Post# 571616 , Reply# 83   1/26/2012 at 19:31 (4,471 days old) by HooverWheelAway ()        

Terry, taking my freshly restored Eureka for a spin...


Post# 571617 , Reply# 84   1/26/2012 at 19:32 (4,471 days old) by bajaespuma (Connecticut)        
It's a lovely tribute

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I'm saddened beyond words to hear this. I was looking forward to seeing him again at one of the upcoming meets. May he rest in peace. What a sweet, kind man.


Post# 571620 , Reply# 85   1/26/2012 at 19:43 (4,471 days old) by washoholic (San Antonio, TX)        
We’re sad for ourselves because we’re going to miss him. Te

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We met at the Magnificent Tucson Arizona three-day wash-in event in 2007. My fondest memory of him was in Ross Roberts’ garage during the event where we were all enjoying Ross’s machines.

Terry was running around with a very serious face asking everyone if they had seen his shorts. It was so funny, and everyone began to joke and laugh about it. Then make jokes like, “who were you with when you took off your shorts,” etc. I know Terry had the whole garage full of people just rolling in laughter. A lot of us were meeting for the first time and that really broke the ice and got everyone laughing and talking.

The funny thing was that Terry really was looking for his shorts. He had washed them in one of the machines and then the shorts just disappeared.

Terry wasn’t a quitter and even after the event was over, as he told people good-bye and thanked them for coming, he asked if they had seen his shorts. Someone even suggested that the shorts had been stolen, but with Terry’s heart of gold he would not believe that anyone would do such a thing. Terry was sure that there was a logical explanation.

A day or so later Ross’s 1950 Thor Automagic Spinner Washer was pumping rather lazily, so Ross took out the tub to find that Terry’s shorts had somehow been spun out into the area between the basket and the tub and the shorts were blocking the drain hole to the pump. Terry was right!

At every event, Terry was working hard, having fun, making people laugh, bringing people together, and never complaining. To know him was to love him.

~Jeff


Post# 571622 , Reply# 86   1/26/2012 at 20:15 (4,471 days old) by michaelman2 (Lauderdale by the Sea, FL)        

Always a kind word or sweet message. RIP Terry.

Post# 571624 , Reply# 87   1/26/2012 at 20:22 (4,471 days old) by gowest84 (Phoenix, AZ)        
My sympathies

I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. My sympathies to his family and all of his friends.

Post# 571625 , Reply# 88   1/26/2012 at 20:25 (4,471 days old) by bendixmark (Winchester Mass)        

I never met Terry but I am still so sad to hear of his passing just the same he sounds like he was a great guy who loves vintage washers like me...

Post# 571626 , Reply# 89   1/26/2012 at 20:25 (4,471 days old) by verizonbear (Glen Burnie )        
Very Sad

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I never met Terry, he was certainly loved by his friends from what I see , He was a lucky man

Post# 571629 , Reply# 90   1/26/2012 at 20:29 (4,471 days old) by mickeyd (Hamburg NY)        
"Only the good die young."

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To new members; When you hear of someone's passing, the superlatives fly loose and easy about how great the person was and on and on. Well, in Terry's case, every superlative is actually true. I know this because I was lucky enough to spend a week-end in his company in Canton. A walking, living, saint, not a bad word about anyone, genuinely interested in your life, instant friendship, a reassuring arm around the shoulder or a palm on the back. I loved this guy.

I walked into the Vacuum convention never having met anyone from AW/VAC. I was alone and nervous. Terry came right up and hugged me, invited me to meet him later for a drink at the hotel bar where his offer of friendship was so warm and honest that you felt you knew this first class guy all your life. And my God, he was a first-class guy!

A little later he invited me to eat at the table of his close friends who are in both clubs. This kind of generosity and consideration are so unusual, but you know what? Terry would do this for ANYONE. He loved everyone and was good to everyone. You talk about Christ-like, well, move over, Jesus!

To everyone: Did you ever realize that he has never published a harsh word toward anyone EVER. Not one word, not one syllable, not one time. If you were waiting for him to bad mouth someone, you'd wait forever. Such character, such moral decency. A model and an example of decency that humbles us all and whose memory we can most honor by imitating his qualities, right here, every day. How he'd love that.

Terry was the heart of AW/VAC, and our hearts are broken. Terry is irreplaceable.

To Terry: I loved you, my good man, and the next plane of existence is glittering with your presence. I am so sorry I haven't contacted you. You have been on my mind very much since Christmas. Oh.... if only. But now I can pray to you and visit you in the spiritual realm. I hope to see you tonight.

Love,

Mike. No link, blurry-eyed, I hit a key and can get it off. Typical.


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Post# 571631 , Reply# 91   1/26/2012 at 20:35 (4,471 days old) by Easyspindry (Winston-Salem, NC)        
Terry was a true . . .

. . . friend to anyone he met. I met Terry in Omaha. He was the first person I spoke with and was amused at how enthralled I was to finally meet others with interests similar to mine.

We met again in Tucson where he shared with me a recipe for a cake that he had "thrown together" at Roger's.

How beautiful it is that his passing was indeed painless and that he was among his dear friends.

We should all consider ourselves lucky to have known someone like Terry. He was truly a remarkable, genuine person.

Peace.

Jerry Gay


Post# 571632 , Reply# 92   1/26/2012 at 20:50 (4,471 days old) by jeff_adelphi (Adelphi, Maryland, USA)        
Such sad news

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Such a sad start for the day yielded to such a fine day of tributes - all so very true.   So many places, and things, and friends.   It's no wonder, dear Terry.   A few rememberances from some of our favorite times. We already miss you---


Post# 571633 , Reply# 93   1/26/2012 at 20:56 (4,471 days old) by jeff_adelphi (Adelphi, Maryland, USA)        
Another photo,

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Cape Cod last summer


Post# 571634 , Reply# 94   1/26/2012 at 20:59 (4,471 days old) by jeff_adelphi (Adelphi, Maryland, USA)        
Another photo,

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Relaxing


Post# 571635 , Reply# 95   1/26/2012 at 21:01 (4,471 days old) by Jetaction (Minneapolis)        
I too have some great memories of Terry.......

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I recall some very memorable conversations with him together in the car in Arizona, on the phone and in notes and cards he sent me. A gentle spirit who loved nothing more than to take care of others.

Post# 571636 , Reply# 96   1/26/2012 at 21:04 (4,471 days old) by jeff_adelphi (Adelphi, Maryland, USA)        
Terry-----

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A big hug from ALL your friends!


Post# 571638 , Reply# 97   1/26/2012 at 21:14 (4,471 days old) by MaytagA710 ()        

I just saw the post about this over on the other side.

I remember Terry from Vacuumland when I was more active in posting last year. He was a nice man, very helpful.

I am really sorry to hear this! I hope everyone is feeling okay, and my sincere condolences to everyone on the forum and family.


Post# 571639 , Reply# 98   1/26/2012 at 21:17 (4,471 days old) by fnelson487 (Palm Springs, CA)        
Some Pictures

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And wonderful memories for me.  When I first met Terry I was totally entranced by what a wonderful, warm and genuine person Terry was.  He loved Electroluxes and I arranged to get a new-in-the-box rebuilt Electrolux G vacuum.  He was here for a gala for the Center on Halsted and I arranged to get him this machine.  After we got back from the black tie event after riding in limo downtown and back I held a mock lottery for the Lux G.  I totally rigged it so that Terry got the machine.  I handed out the tickets (all with the same number) and told everyone else if they claimed the prize I would "chop off their b@!!s".  No one dared claim it.  Here is Terry claiming his prize.


Post# 571640 , Reply# 99   1/26/2012 at 21:18 (4,471 days old) by pdub (Portland, Oregon)        
Very sorry to hear this.

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I had only communicated with Terry through the forums here but always knew he was a genuine nice man and well loved by all he touched. I am sorry I myself never met him in person.

May he rest in peace under God's shining light.

Patrick


Post# 571642 , Reply# 100   1/26/2012 at 21:33 (4,471 days old) by fnelson487 (Palm Springs, CA)        
A Batch of Cookies

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Made by Terry during one of his visits.  When I went through his bags looking for id's I found a box of cake mix and a bag of chocolate chips.  Totally Terry.  We'll miss you.


Post# 571643 , Reply# 101   1/26/2012 at 21:35 (4,471 days old) by chaskelljr2 (Washington, D. C.)        
In Honor Of Terry.....

I don't have much to say, because in all of the decade that I have been a member here, I don't believe I have ever met Terry, nor communicated with him in any way. But I will say that I am sorry to hear of his passing.

I am sure Terry was a great guy for those who have had the privledge of interacting with him. And had he and I ever met anytime during his life, then that would've been my perception of him as well.

I would like to express my heartfelt condolences to Terry's family as well as his VERY extended family here on "www.automaticwasher.org...". Whether we knew Terry or not, we still loved Terry as the same, and he will be sorely missed. Here at "www.automaticwasher.org...", we have lost a valued friend indeed.

Just know now, Terry is in a better place, and I am sure there are a lot of vintage washers in heaven for Terry to play with and enjoy.

On this end, I would like to say, Rest In Peace, Terry. R.I.P.!!!!

--Charles--


Post# 571644 , Reply# 102   1/26/2012 at 21:40 (4,471 days old) by fnelson487 (Palm Springs, CA)        
Funeral Arrangements

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Here are the funeral arrangements from Terry's nephew:

 

We have set visitation for Tues 1/31 from 4-7 pm

The funeral service will be Wed 2/1 at 10am

Cotter Funeral Home
Momence, IL
815-472-2442

If you or anyone plans on attending, there are many hotels in kankakee or bourbonnais, IL


Post# 571645 , Reply# 103   1/26/2012 at 21:46 (4,471 days old) by washernoob ()        

Thanks for that, Fred.

I hope many of you all can attend. I do wish I could. I know Terry has created very strong, firm bonds with so many club members all around the world.


He was, in a way, what one could call "the baking yeast" of the club. As we mingle in the mixmaster bowl, he lifted us up, and supporting us at all times, as we all soon find comfort amongst each other in the Frigidaire oven, as a big family.

Thanks again, Terry, and for everyone you have reached out to.


Post# 571647 , Reply# 104   1/26/2012 at 21:49 (4,471 days old) by 70series ( Connecticut.)        

My heartfelt and profound condolences to his family and friends both inside and outside the group. I have never met Terry, but those of you who have, and who knew him were obviously enriched by him. You have my sympathies.

James


Post# 571649 , Reply# 105   1/26/2012 at 21:56 (4,471 days old) by DirectDriveDave ()        

My sympathies go to his family and all of you who knew him well. I am another who has never met the man, but just from the pictures I can tell he was a very friendly and caring person.


May Terry rest peacefully.


Post# 571652 , Reply# 106   1/26/2012 at 22:11 (4,471 days old) by mistereric (New Jersey (Taylor Ham))        

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Awe, thats rotten news! What a nice man. Our condolences.

Post# 571653 , Reply# 107   1/26/2012 at 22:14 (4,471 days old) by golittlesport (California)        
Very sad news

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This is shocking sad news for anyone who knew Terry and a loss to us all. As all have shared here, Terry was a very loving, warm person. At the first DC wash in, I had dragged my partner Gary across the country to it and then abandoned him to the excitement of visiting with club friends and experiencing vintage washing machines in John's warehouse/museum. Terry saw Gary standing alone and not fitting in (Gary is not a washer-guy, but puts up with me.) He started talking to Gary and the two of them hit it off and had a great time all night. This was typical Terry -- making sure everyone feels welcome, and he was happiest when busy taking care of others. Gary and I will miss him very much. We are comforted by knowing Terry was with people he loved at the time he left us.

Post# 571656 , Reply# 108   1/26/2012 at 22:27 (4,471 days old) by dishwashercrazy (West Peoria, IL)        

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Like everyone else, I am saddened by Terry's passing.

I will plan to attend the Funeral since it is under a 3 hour drive from Peoria.

Here is the link to the Funeral Arrangements at Cotter Funeral Home.

Mike




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Post# 571663 , Reply# 109   1/26/2012 at 23:08 (4,471 days old) by PeterH770 (Marietta, GA)        

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I'm so saddened and shocked to hear this. We've lost such a great person and friend. Hugs and prayers to all...

Post# 571666 , Reply# 110   1/26/2012 at 23:26 (4,471 days old) by rapidry1000 (San Francisco)        

My condolence to Terry's family. Although I have never met Terry or all the fellow AW members at the various get togethers, I feel a personal connection through our interest in automatic washers.

Post# 571668 , Reply# 111   1/26/2012 at 23:31 (4,471 days old) by KenmoreGuy64 (Charlotte, NC)        

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I am sorry that I never met Terry in person. I had thought that eventually our paths would cross at a wash-in or smaller gathering, and at that time I could meet the man whom several people have told me was such a great guy, and whom I had seen countless times in photographs. I always thought he looked like such a happy, warm, and caring soul and there is certainly proof of that here.

Two things profoundly strike me as I read this amazingly well-read and replied to post. First, Terry made a mark on the world and in the lives of many people. I am sure that he achieved more than we probably realize even amongst all these touching testimonials. To earn the caliber of acolades he did is truly special in this day, and we should all be so fortunate, and we stand to learn from his example.

Also, this is the third reminder in just a few days that I have had that life is brief, and should be embraced when we have the chance. Terry clearly knew that and practiced this each day. Earlier this week my Mom informed me that two neighbor ladies in Michigan, where I spent half my childhood, had died six weeks apart this past fall. We were the fourth of a four-house cul-de-sac which was built in 1967. There were kids my age in each of the other three houses and I got to know their moms very well. We were the first to move away ten years later. I always looked forward to their Christmas cards which came to my parent's house year after year after we moved, first to Denver and then to Charlotte. This year, when the cards didn't come, I feared the worst, and Mom sent some e-mails and found out that one lady died in September, and the other in October. In fact, the funeral of the first who died was the last public function the second lady had attended - they were neighbors since 1967. My Mom is now the last of four, and I can hardly fathom the logical extension one can make there.

This is just another example why we should grab life and live it while we can. We need to take at least a little bit of Terry's example on how to life a fine life for the good of ourselves and everyone else. As they say, immitation is the greatest form of flattery.

Rest in peace Terry. To all of us still here...live happy, live healthy, and live well.

Gordon



Post# 571669 , Reply# 112   1/26/2012 at 23:41 (4,471 days old) by cfz2882 (Belle Fourche,SD)        
R.I.P.

very saddened to hear of a longtime AWO member and great friend to so many here
going off to the great beyond...
In tribute i ran a steaming,sudsing"imperial"load in the 'ol filter flo.
R I P terry


Post# 571670 , Reply# 113   1/26/2012 at 23:47 (4,471 days old) by alr2903 (TN)        

Oh no,  sorry to hear of this,  Condolences to friends and family.


Post# 571671 , Reply# 114   1/26/2012 at 23:50 (4,471 days old) by MattL (Flushing, MI)        

Such sad news.  Terry was so much a part of this forum, though I never met him, I felt I knew him - at least a bit- by reading his posts.  He always had something positive to say, I'm glad he found a home here as many of us have.  A sad day indeed.


Post# 571672 , Reply# 115   1/26/2012 at 23:52 (4,471 days old) by kenmore71 (Minneapolis, MN)        

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As a bit of a newbie to the board, I never had the opportunity to meet Terry. All I can offer is the following:
"May the angels lead you into paradise. May the martyrs come to welcome you and lead you to the Holy City, the new and eternal Jerusalem where Lazarus is poor no longer. May you have eternal rest."


Post# 571674 , Reply# 116   1/26/2012 at 23:55 (4,471 days old) by Toggleswitch (New York City, NY)        

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Jeff Washaholic:

Your post above touches my memory and encapsulates the feelings that day had for me perfectly.


AMAZING!

Thank you!


Post# 571675 , Reply# 117   1/26/2012 at 23:59 (4,471 days old) by mrcleanjeans (milwaukee wi)        

My condolences,sounds like a sweet man. I did not know him but I pray comfort for all and may he rest in eternal peace.

Post# 571676 , Reply# 118   1/27/2012 at 00:07 (4,471 days old) by RevvinKevin (Tinseltown - Shakey Town - La-La Land)        

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I want to add a couple photos of Terry as well.....

 

Here he is with us just after dinner the evening before Robert & Fred's Wash-In, May 2010.

 

Kevin


Post# 571678 , Reply# 119   1/27/2012 at 00:12 (4,471 days old) by RevvinKevin (Tinseltown - Shakey Town - La-La Land)        

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So many have said such wonderful and touching things about him.... we will ALL miss him very much! 

 

Now in the group photo in Robert & Fred's basement the day of the 2010 Wash-In.  

He's in the first row of people standing in the white shirt on the left.

 

Kevin


Post# 571680 , Reply# 120   1/27/2012 at 00:28 (4,471 days old) by whirlykenmore78 (Prior Lake MN (GMT-0500 CDT.))        
My Condolences

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As I am a relatively new member here I have little knowledge of Terry. I do however know what it's like to lose a dear friend. I wish I would have had the chance to meet him. My thoughts go out to his family and friends. Here in silence is a picture of my Kenmores blacked out. I belive he would have loved them. Terry the next wash I do in this set is for you.
Nick


Post# 571682 , Reply# 121   1/27/2012 at 00:41 (4,471 days old) by westingman123 ()        

It is very telling that hearts are breaking all over the country. Our world is darker for his passing, but let us be thankful he was among good, good friends and (I'm sure) he felt loved at his time of passing.

Godspeed, Terry.


Post# 571688 , Reply# 122   1/27/2012 at 01:40 (4,471 days old) by earthling177 (Boston, MA)        

I'm very sorry to hear this and very sorry for the loss it is in our lives.

May he rest in peace.


Post# 571691 , Reply# 123   1/27/2012 at 02:14 (4,471 days old) by AutoWasherFreak ()        
Robert, Fred, and Everyone at AW

Saddened to hear of Terry's passing.

Post# 571696 , Reply# 124   1/27/2012 at 03:00 (4,470 days old) by Ultramatic (New York City)        
I'm very sorry for your loss...

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My deepest condolences.


Post# 571698 , Reply# 125   1/27/2012 at 05:05 (4,470 days old) by Maytagbear (N.E. Ohio)        
I am stunned.

Like many others, I had not met Terry in person, but liked his posts very much, and his obvious kindness and personal integrity.


Lawrence/Maytagbear


Post# 571699 , Reply# 126   1/27/2012 at 05:39 (4,470 days old) by washer-kid ()        

Robert & Fred and everybody who knew Terry ....I am so saddened to hear about Terry's passing..." May he rest in peace" ..he will be missed...

Post# 571700 , Reply# 127   1/27/2012 at 06:05 (4,470 days old) by A440 ()        
How Sad.

Terry was one of those people that you think will be around forever. In many ways I am sure he will be.
I am glad that I was able to spend time with him at a few wash-in's over the years. One thing that I always noticed about Terry is that he always managed to spend a little "private" time with each person at the events I attended. I have a lot of great memories of Terry even though I really did not spend large amounts of time with him. One memory that sticks out is from a Wash-In that we attended in Ohio. The car that we were traveling in was broad sided when a teenager ran a stop sign. Terry and I, and someone else was in the back seat. Terry was in the middle. Lucky the wreck was not very bad, but it jolted the car we were in and caused us to fishtail a little. Terry had a big, fresh Starbucks Coffee! Well it ended up all over me. Before we could even discuss what just took place, Terry was so worried that I was burned! He then started to tell me he knew just what to do so that the coffee would not stain the shirt I was wearing! So Terry! I think about this all the time when I think about Terry! Great Memories!
Rest In Peace Terry!
Brent


Post# 571701 , Reply# 128   1/27/2012 at 06:23 (4,470 days old) by kenmore700bill (Lodi NJ)        

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My heart and Prayers go out to Terry his family and friends here. From what I see he was loved by all and will be missed by all. I am sorry I didn't have the pleasure of meeting him.
Bill


Post# 571702 , Reply# 129   1/27/2012 at 06:25 (4,470 days old) by Jetcone (Schenectady-Home of Calrods,Monitor Tops,Toroid Transformers)        
To start a new event

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I think we should have an opening saying and it just came to me what it should be-when starting a "wash-in" or "vac-u-thon" the perfect opening:

 

Terry-on!

 

 


Post# 571703 , Reply# 130   1/27/2012 at 06:40 (4,470 days old) by toploader55 (Massachusetts Sand Bar, Cape Cod)        
So Sad.

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What a Kind, Sweet, Man. You will be missed. I never met Terry, but the way he responded to posts and e-mails you just knew He was a Super Guy. Eddie

Post# 571704 , Reply# 131   1/27/2012 at 06:42 (4,470 days old) by gizmo (Victoria, Australia)        

I am so sorry to read this.

I have never met Terry but from the photos he looks like a lovely guy with a twinkle in his eye.

My sympathy and best wishes to all of you who knew him and who miss him.

Chris.


Post# 571705 , Reply# 132   1/27/2012 at 06:57 (4,470 days old) by 300C (Jonesboro, GA)        
I'm Deeply Touched

I never got to meet Terry, but I am very deeply touched by the love and devotion shown by this club. He was no doubt a truly wonderful human being, and I am saddened by his passing.

Larry


Post# 571708 , Reply# 133   1/27/2012 at 07:54 (4,470 days old) by RE563 (Fort Worth, Texas)        

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I am so sorry to hear of this news. My thought are with you and Fred and all of his family and friends.

Post# 571709 , Reply# 134   1/27/2012 at 08:08 (4,470 days old) by bpetersxx (laf in on the banks of the Wabash River)        

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Dad and I send condolences in this difficult time

Post# 571710 , Reply# 135   1/27/2012 at 08:08 (4,470 days old) by westie2 ()        

i never met Terry face to face but he did e-mail me with encouragement when I was laid up with a foot and bone infection 4 years ago.  He was always happy and liked everyone.  My thoughts and prayers go out to his close friends and family.


Post# 571712 , Reply# 136   1/27/2012 at 08:22 (4,470 days old) by maytag63 (South Berwick, Maine)        

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Dave and I never had a chance to meet him, but I'm sure he's in heaven and the angels are lining up with their soiled wings and robes and asking him which washing machine they should use to take out the stains. After the rest of heaven finds out that he's arrived, another line forms with angels inquiring about which vacuum to use on a particular cloud. Our condolences to his family and friends.

Post# 571715 , Reply# 137   1/27/2012 at 08:41 (4,470 days old) by electron1100 (England)        
Across the pond

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I am truly sorry about Terry, having looked at his pictures and the comments people have made, it is clear that he was a popular and much loved guy.

Please accept my condolences

Gary


Post# 571718 , Reply# 138   1/27/2012 at 09:02 (4,470 days old) by randycmaynard ()        
Sorry to hear of Terry's passing.........

I had never met him and not been able to travel to a wash-in (yet) but have seen him in many of the photos posted here in my short couple of years or so here and from the post above and the photos I can see he had many, many friends and was loved by all. Thoughs and Prayers.........

Post# 571722 , Reply# 139   1/27/2012 at 09:20 (4,470 days old) by Launderess (Quiet Please, There´s a Lady on Stage)        
How Very Sad

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Am so sorry to hear of Terry's passing. Such a wonderful, kind and gentle soul; he will be missed.

" I sing because my soul is happy,
I sing because my soul is free;
For His eye is on the little ole sparrow,
and I know God watches over you and me."


Post# 571724 , Reply# 140   1/27/2012 at 09:28 (4,470 days old) by suds14 (Pittsburgh)        

My deepest sympanthy to all of Terry's family and friends.

David


Post# 571727 , Reply# 141   1/27/2012 at 09:46 (4,470 days old) by Unimatic1140 (Minneapolis)        

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Terry loved our see-thru dishwashers and I offered to make him a KDS-18 or 19 see-thru model when we found a machine in decent shape. Someday I'll still have to make it in his honor.

Post# 571728 , Reply# 142   1/27/2012 at 09:46 (4,470 days old) by christfr (st louis mo)        

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such a sad day really did love that guy.. terry was the first person i met at gregs years ago and he is the reason i stayed for the weekend and im so glad i did.. what a sweet man!

Post# 571729 , Reply# 143   1/27/2012 at 09:50 (4,470 days old) by lesto (Atlanta)        

I am deeply saddened by Terry's death. I attended several wash-ins with him over the years and always enjoyed his warmth and sense of humor. We will all miss him terribly!

Post# 571732 , Reply# 144   1/27/2012 at 09:55 (4,470 days old) by CleanteamofNY ((Monroe, New York)        

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Even though I've never met him, my heart is heavy for when you have a mental image of a person and then place the face to the name is so daunting.
May you, the family and friends find comfort and peace during this time of sorrow!


Post# 571736 , Reply# 145   1/27/2012 at 10:24 (4,470 days old) by Toggleswitch (New York City, NY)        

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Please excuse me if this is premature, but I would absolutely love to see a thread with Terry's recipes and specialties, should anyone have them or have access to them.


One of the major religions believes that the characteristics of the departed are dived-up among the surviving loved-ones. I have decided in all earnestness to take-on a few of Terry's. I mean, you just can't go wrong with a personality like that!



Post# 571737 , Reply# 146   1/27/2012 at 10:30 (4,470 days old) by combo52 (50 Year Repair Tech Beltsville,Md)        
A very sad week in applianceville

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Its hard for me to wright at this time, everything that has been said is so very true, and I am sure that Terry would upset about all the fuss we are making over his death.

 

I feel so fortunate to have meet Terry many times, and while I want to say they don't make people like him any more, I know that that's not true and Terry would be the first to agree. For those of us that have been the hosts of several washer conventions Terry will be sorely missed as he would usually show days in advance and stay for days afterwards always on the go doing what ever needed doing.

 

Jeff and I have decided to dedicate our official opening party at the appliance museum here to Terry  when we have the next convention in 2013 [ date to be announced ]. I am also going to get a plaque made that will feature Terry's name that will be displayed at the museum as one of the founding members of this group. The plaque will be designed so other names can be added as time goes on.

 

I have and am living an incredibly rich life because of people like Terry and when these tragedies strike I always was taught to do something so that other tragedies can be prevented or minimized so we will shortly make a donation in Terry's memory to one of the many charities that works to prevent smoking related diseases.

 

And as Jon sugested we must now all Terryon


Post# 571744 , Reply# 147   1/27/2012 at 10:55 (4,470 days old) by appnut (TX)        

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As with so many have said, I cannot describe how heartbroken I am. Devastating news to say the least. Terry always made me feel so intensely loved. I have to confess, this is one time I have not read through all the postings before I post--which is something I always try to do. Terry was so selfless in giving of his time and talents. He was so meticulous in helping get every vac or appliance convention ready. He would pursue everything with a toothbrush to make it perfect for presentation. Such patience and love. I can attest to him helping keep Robert, Greg, and the DC cvew steady on course and prepared for our onslaught. I loved helping him in the kitchen in Tuscon even ifg it was just loading all the KitchenAids. He knew that was my domain. I will miss him so much I cannot describe. I hurt so much more now with this. What a year--Allen and now Terry.

Post# 571791 , Reply# 148   1/27/2012 at 15:18 (4,470 days old) by in2itdood ()        
thoughts

Being a such a new member, I never had the opportunity to meet or interact with Terry. However from the posts filled with memories, pictures, and love... I can tell he was an amazing person. I am sure he will be missed by all.


Post# 571803 , Reply# 149   1/27/2012 at 16:06 (4,470 days old) by a007kirbyman (--->> Originally My Mom <<--- (now Wisconsin))        
Terry's Passing... (& 'family')

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(As prior posted on VCCC)

Fred N, Charlie W & everyone else who was close to or knew Terry...


First off, I would like to offer my condolences to ALL who knew Terry, whether that be family (by blood), or the 'family' of collectors that we all are, & also to casual acquaintances that knew Terry.

Secondly, I would like to thank both Fred & Charlie for making us aware of & keeping us updated of the events of Terry's passing & future 'arrangements' regarding his funeral.


I have had the pleasure of numerous conversations with Terry via telephone & most recently when I attended the 2011 VCCC Convention in Bloomington, MN. It was always enjoyable visiting with Terry, as he was a very cheerful & upbeat gentleman. Dare I say, that he also seemed to be very knowledgeable, at least on vacuums. ~~~lol~~~ (I believe that would've produced one of Terry's well-known smiles.)

I believe I can say with much certainty, that one would be hard-pressed to find a more caring person than Terry was. He was a "CLASS-ACT" in my humble opinion.

I'm sorry that I will not have the opportunity to have more conversations with my (our) GREAT friend.

May you rest in peace, Terry. You will be in my thoughts often.


Bill

a007Kirbyman



Ps: I have not been active with posts recently, as it's been 'crazy' with going-ons & such lately; HOWEVER, this was/is just "TOO IMPORTANT" to not make time to post to.



Post# 571810 , Reply# 150   1/27/2012 at 16:54 (4,470 days old) by seeitrun2006 (Commerce, GA)        
Terry's death

I never met Terry personally but from reading all the posts it is like I knew him well.

Peace to his family and friends in his passing.

David


Post# 571829 , Reply# 151   1/27/2012 at 18:03 (4,470 days old) by whirlaway (Hampton Virginia)        
How Sad!!!!!!

Ive never met but only a few of you,Im really sad I never met him,he was truly loved just by looking at the pictures and reading the threads.What a nice tribute to a fallen friend all of you have created,Godspeed his trip to Heaven, Bobby

Post# 571833 , Reply# 152   1/27/2012 at 18:40 (4,470 days old) by countryford (Austin, MN)        

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I had never had the pleasure to meet Terry. This is so sad to hear. I wish I could have met him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and his AW family. Just by reading all these posts and looking at the pictures I can tell he was truly loved by everyone on this site. RIP Terry.

Post# 571842 , Reply# 153   1/27/2012 at 19:22 (4,470 days old) by angus (Fairfield, CT.)        

I suppose there is nothing I can say that has not been so eloquently expressed already. I too never had an opportunity to meet Terry, but through his posts it was clear what a gentleman he was. When good people die, it is always too soon. For those of you who knew Terry, I hope your memories comfort you and in time make you smile. Honor this good man with your actions - it is the best tribute you can pay him. As always all are in my prayers.

Post# 571843 , Reply# 154   1/27/2012 at 19:32 (4,470 days old) by geextrarinse (Hudson Valley, New York )        
My condolences...

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Though I never met him, we all share the same interests and passion for beautifully made machines. I know those who knew him well will surely feel the loss and I wish you all much love and a big hug in this difficult time.



Post# 571844 , Reply# 155   1/27/2012 at 19:39 (4,470 days old) by petek (Ontari ari ari O )        

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Having been seriously stunned hearing this yesterday afternoon I woke up this morning thinking that perhaps it was just a bad dream, if not then just a horrible practical joke.
I only met Terry the once in 08 at Canton as well. That was around the start of a bad time in my life with my sisters failing health and later death and my moms altzheimers diagnosis where I was just about at my wits end worrying, forcing myself to attend in the hopes I'd have a good time and catch at least a few days break from it all. I got there only to realize I was feeling even worse than had I stayed home. Now I had to endure meeting new people, being uncomfortable with it and all that entails and I was pretty much set to just go get my luggage, hop in the car and drive home. Terry was one of the first people I met there and he was so easy to chat with and made me feel very welcome and I ended up staying. We chatted off and on throughout, on the chairs in the lobby or out front having a smoke. I cant say enough about him. We'd kept in touch on the phone since, yakking about this or that going on in our lives and he was always genuinely concerned I believe about how I was making out as things here at home kept getting progressively worse. He called one time I wasn't home and Larry answered the call not really knowing who the hell he was but they ended up having a conversation. He said to me.. Your friend Terry in Florida phoned and he sounds like a really nice guy and he wants to know when are we coming down to Florida. That in itself is a testament about how wonderful a man he was.

You only get a few real friends in your lifetime so my grandma used to say, he was certainly one of mine and many many others here and no doubt in his separate life outside of the vac/washer world so he was indeed one of those rare exceptions to the rule. Always a friend, never an acquaintance.



Post# 571854 , Reply# 156   1/27/2012 at 20:22 (4,470 days old) by mrb627 (Buford, GA)        
RIP Terry!

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My condolences on Terry's passing.

Life is short... find something that makes you happy!

Malcolm


Post# 571858 , Reply# 157   1/27/2012 at 20:38 (4,470 days old) by bendix5 (Central Point, Oregon)        

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Dear Friends, JoEllen and I are so sorry to hear about our friend Terry passing on. Terry was one of the first people I had made friends with on this club site back in 2000. He was an inspiration to all who had any contact with him. Always helping out, lending good advice or holding your hand thru a crisis. He didn't judge people and showed his huge heart full of love every day. Terry, we will miss you and I hope you are looking down and know just how family, friends and people all around loved and cared about you. Dan and JoEllen

Post# 571860 , Reply# 158   1/27/2012 at 20:44 (4,470 days old) by varicyclevoice (Davenport, Iowa)        
Saddened to learn about Terry

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I just want to say that I am very grateful to have met Terry on a few occasions during our get togethers. He was a wonderful man and a great person.

I also want to say that the tribute on here by all of you is so nice and what a thoughtful way to remember him. I'm sure that Terry would be touched by all of the loving and kind words spoken about him.


Post# 571861 , Reply# 159   1/27/2012 at 20:46 (4,470 days old) by jetcone (Schenectady-Home of Calrods,Monitor Tops,Toroid Transformers)        
I love that photo Jeff posted

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( post 571632) of the 4 quacks working on the EASY while Terry deadpans the cameraman with -"get a load of these wackos!"

 

 


Post# 571881 , Reply# 160   1/27/2012 at 22:16 (4,470 days old) by rocky2 (Northwest Indiana)        

My visits to AW have been very sporadic lately and I was truly saddened to read this. To Terry’s family and his closest friends I offer my prayers and deepest condolences.

Post# 571882 , Reply# 161   1/27/2012 at 22:35 (4,470 days old) by Iheartmaytag (Wichita, Kansas)        

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I am so sorry to hear this sad news, I did not know Terry but I have seen his pictures on this site many time. Now reading the love that was felt for him, I feel the loss as well. Thank you for sharing the pictures again, and those that did know him; thank you for sharing this kind and gentle soul with us.

Eternal rest, grant unto him O Lord
and let perpetual light shine upon him.
May he rest in peace (Amen)
May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed,
through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
Amen.


Post# 571885 , Reply# 162   1/27/2012 at 23:20 (4,470 days old) by twinniefan (Sydney Australia)        
Deepest sympathy

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My deepest sympathy to all of Terry's family and friends, although I never met him,just reading your various postings clearly show the high regard and esteem he was held in,he was clearly a truly wonderful man, it is just so unfair that all the very decent and good people seem to die so young and in the prime of their lives.
Always remember my cyber-friends, that our loved ones are never truly gone until the memories fade, and I am very certain in Terry's case those memories will be around for many, many years to come.
My very best wishes to you all.
Steve.


Post# 571886 , Reply# 163   1/27/2012 at 23:21 (4,470 days old) by Spiceman1957 ()        
Although I never had the chance to meet Terry,

this tragic paassing of a such a fine gentlemen really breaks my heart. It was nice to know that he had so many friends in his life just by viewing these pictures of him and his friends. Robert, you, as well as many of his close friends, have my deepest sympathy.

John


Post# 571889 , Reply# 164   1/27/2012 at 23:36 (4,470 days old) by dnastrau (Lords Valley, PA)        
Amazing!

What an incredible outpouring of love for a man who obviously touched so many lives. My thoughts and prayers are with Terry and for everyone who feels his loss.

Andrew S.


Post# 571890 , Reply# 165   1/27/2012 at 23:55 (4,470 days old) by spiralator60 (Los Angeles)        

I'm so sorry to learn about Terry's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

Post# 571891 , Reply# 166   1/27/2012 at 23:56 (4,470 days old) by eddy1210 (Burnaby BC Canada)        
so very sorry to hear this

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Was I ever shocked to hear this news! I'd just like to say that I'm remembering him in a special way. I was privileged to have met Terry and experience his warm friendship and many gift he offered.

You will be missed Terry. Rest in peace.


Post# 571920 , Reply# 167   1/28/2012 at 02:50 (4,469 days old) by missjetcone ()        

Hello everyone
The news about terry truly broke my heart. terry was so nice and a dear person and helpful very informative about appliances and it fun to cook with him at robert&freds house whe had so much fun.Well my dear Terry rest in peace and we will miss you very much. karen &david



Post# 571921 , Reply# 168   1/28/2012 at 02:51 (4,469 days old) by philr (Quebec Canada)        

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I never had the chance to meet Terry or talk to him.  But just a week before he passed away, he said me happy birthday on this forum. 

 

Terry, I hope you're having a great time where you are now.


Post# 571932 , Reply# 169   1/28/2012 at 05:56 (4,469 days old) by rollermatic (cincinnati)        

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how sad to read of his passing but how inspiring to read all the wonderful things all the members here have written of him!!!

and he went quickly and in the fellowship of his dear friends! how wonderful is that!


Post# 571938 , Reply# 170   1/28/2012 at 07:13 (4,469 days old) by rapunzel (Sydney)        
Rest in Peace Terry!

Even though I've not had the privilege to have known Terry, I am touched by the heartfelt tributes from everyone here. I, too, wish to extend my deepest sympathies to everyone bereft by his sudden passing.


Post# 571943 , Reply# 171   1/28/2012 at 07:50 (4,469 days old) by jamman_98 (Columbia, SC)        
I'm sorry for everyone's loss

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I did not have the pleasure of meeting Terry but I think he would be pleased that so many people responded on this thread. Our choir did a version of the Psalm 23. I hope he and you like it.

 

Joe

Jamman_98



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Post# 571959 , Reply# 172   1/28/2012 at 08:42 (4,469 days old) by gadgetgary (Bristol,CT)        
Terry & Rich visit CT

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Click on the link.

 

We had a great weekend in CT.

 

Miss you Terry!



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Post# 571970 , Reply# 173   1/28/2012 at 10:46 (4,469 days old) by bradross (New Westminster, BC., Canada)        
With condolences ...

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I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of one of our members - and obviously from the testamonies and photos, a very dear member to many. After reading his membership bio, I'm moved to reitterate Terry's sentiment about the wonderful members of this club, who, not only share a common interest, but are also a great group of people.

Post# 571979 , Reply# 174   1/28/2012 at 12:48 (4,469 days old) by mrboilwash (Munich,Germany)        

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So sorry for your loss !

Loosing a very close friend is one of the most devastating challenge some have to experience in life.


Post# 571987 , Reply# 175   1/28/2012 at 13:22 (4,469 days old) by lovestowash (St. Petersburg, FL)        
Link...

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Post# 572016 , Reply# 176   1/28/2012 at 17:33 (4,469 days old) by perc-o-prince (Southboro, Mass)        
This is just so sad!

Terry had been threatening to come to one of our NE wash-ins and he finally made it to the one this past summer (see the above pic of him in front of the Tiki Bar) We were so fortunate to have met him! What a nice, nice genuine person. He was the type of guy who would make an outsider feel as though they had known each other for a long time. We will miss not having a second opportunity to be in his company.

I was so glad to hear theat he had what we in the hospice field refer to as a good death. instant, painless and with friends/loved-ones near him. We couldn't custom order an inevitable event to be so perfect. It is the ones left that are suffering. Our (Chuck and I) condolences go out to all of Terry's family and close friends :-(

Rich


Post# 572021 , Reply# 177   1/28/2012 at 18:13 (4,469 days old) by whirlcool (Just North Of Houston, Texas)        

I am so sorry to hear about this. Terry seemed to be a great guy who was loved by all. Our sympathies to his family & friends.

Since Terry flew up to Chicago before the episode started I wonder if DVT was the cause. Did anyone mention to the doctors at the hospital that he had recently flown?

For those who don't know DVT (deep vein thrombosis) is a blood clot that forms in areas where there isn't generally good blood circulation. Sitting in a seat on a airplane plus the cabin pressure differential can cause this.

The best way to prevent this is to move about the cabin periodically and flex your legs. If, after a flight you don't quite feel right seek emergency treatment immediately! Left untreated DVT is usually fatal.


Post# 572027 , Reply# 178   1/28/2012 at 18:40 (4,469 days old) by whirlcool (Just North Of Houston, Texas)        

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Post# 572034 , Reply# 179   1/28/2012 at 19:10 (4,469 days old) by steved (Guilderland, New York)        
In sympathy

May all your sadness be tempered by the warmth of his spirit that is still with this group. SteveD

Post# 572068 , Reply# 180   1/28/2012 at 23:01 (4,469 days old) by polkanut (Wausau, WI )        

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Having made many friends at Chuck & Rich's holiday party, Terry is another person I would've loved to have met.  My sincere sympathies go out to both his immediate family, and his extended AW.org family. 

 

Forgive me if this offends anyone:

For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain. Phillipians 1:21  


Post# 572093 , Reply# 181   1/29/2012 at 05:05 (4,468 days old) by shawn (Waterford Ct)        
Terry

I am sorry to hear the news about Terry.
Tim.


Post# 572096 , Reply# 182   1/29/2012 at 06:43 (4,468 days old) by jetcone (Schenectady-Home of Calrods,Monitor Tops,Toroid Transformers)        
Kevin

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I keep returning to your picture of US all in Robert&Fred's basement. Such love all around, such a loving group. You caught it. Thank you for putting that up here!

 

I will carry your words to Terry.

 

Jon

 


Post# 572100 , Reply# 183   1/29/2012 at 07:16 (4,468 days old) by jetcone (Schenectady-Home of Calrods,Monitor Tops,Toroid Transformers)        
Just read "Andy's" post over at VACUUMLAND

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I don't know Andy -turboace but I like his idea and have carried it over here for us:

 

"I don't think anyone has thought of this yet, if I missed it, please excuse me. I think to honor Terry, rather than a moment of silence or anything, we should set a time to all throw in a load of laundry,start our dishwashers, and go vacuum with our favorite vacuum to remember all the great times with Terry, knowing how much he liked these activities. 

 

I will leave it to the board both here and AW to decide if this is a good idea or not, and if so, when. 

 Andy "

 

Maybe a sunny summer weekend day  this year??


Post# 572101 , Reply# 184   1/29/2012 at 07:21 (4,468 days old) by spin-it ()        

My heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to all of Terry's family and friends. I obviously did not know Terry but from all the ardent testamonies and sincere, warm words, he was (is) a wonderful person and friend. Please know that although he may be gone he will not be forgotten and will be forever in your hearts.
Kevin


Post# 572105 , Reply# 185   1/29/2012 at 07:55 (4,468 days old) by thelaundrylab (Hampshire UK)        

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Sorry to hear the sad news, RIP Terry, may your Angels be with you! My thoughts & prayers go out to Terry's family & friends.

Hass.


Post# 572115 , Reply# 186   1/29/2012 at 09:37 (4,468 days old) by Ironrite ()        

Several years ago Terry was on vacation here in Las Vegas. We met up at the Stardust Hotel and had a nice dinner. Afterwards I took him on a brief tour of the city, showing him how just the regular people lived here. He enjoyed the drive very much. He was a wonderful guy and he will be missed.

Post# 572118 , Reply# 187   1/29/2012 at 10:18 (4,468 days old) by jeff_adelphi (Adelphi, Maryland, USA)        
A day to remember Terry

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Thats a great idea Jon, Maybe we should make his birthday, July 1, a day of rememberance for Terry. It could be a yearly event where we all celebrate Terry's favorite things.


Post# 572126 , Reply# 188   1/29/2012 at 11:30 (4,468 days old) by wringingwet (Walterboro South Carolina)        
A great and wonderful Tribute

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like so many of us that never had the pleasure of meeting terry in person I find the starting of an appliance would be a fabulous tribute. He has touched so many lives, just look at these forums .. Be grateful for each day for he would loved for you to be happy.

My prayers are with his family and friends

Philippe

Here is my partner playing "Lord I am coming home"


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Post# 572128 , Reply# 189   1/29/2012 at 11:47 (4,468 days old) by aquarius8000 ()        

I never really knew Terry but even this is sad for me.

God bless you Terry.

My thoughts and prayers include Terry and all of you as this is quite sad.

R.I.P Terry.


Post# 572168 , Reply# 190   1/29/2012 at 14:34 (4,468 days old) by LordKenmore (The Laundry Room)        

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I'm sad to hear this news. While I never had any direct contact with him, he had good posts here. And reading this thread shows that he'll be greatly missed.

My deepest sympathy for his family and friends.


Post# 572176 , Reply# 191   1/29/2012 at 15:19 (4,468 days old) by runematic (southcentral pa)        

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I've never had the pleasure to meet Terry in person, but I have enjoyed his posts. I am sad to learn of his passing. The appliance/vacuum world lost a great person.

It shows the make-up of the man when you see all the great responses and memories being posted. Sometimes you touch more people than you may ever know. It also shows that you should be real, genuine, and be there when needed.

Sometimes we may never tell the person how much we appreciate them until it's too late. If you have someone special like this in your life, let them know how you feel. One day it may be too late.


Post# 572178 , Reply# 192   1/29/2012 at 15:20 (4,468 days old) by ~sudsshane ()        
Rest in Peace, Terry.

I don't get on the threads as much as I used to because most of my free time is involved in animal rescue, but I just had to post here to say how sorry I am to hear about Terry's sudden passing. If I can think of one word that would describe him, it would be "Gentleman". While I never had the privilege to meet him in person, I did enjoy the times we corresponded through email. He was always so kind and never had a bad word to say about anyone. It's a real loss to those who loved him here in the AW family.

Post# 572183 , Reply# 193   1/29/2012 at 15:34 (4,468 days old) by appnut (TX)        
Whirlcool's mention of DVT

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Allen I had already thought of this scenario prior to you mentioning it. Being a survivor of a DVT last October and knowing I was facing imminent death at any second with an embolism, now you all know why and how I was so scared. It is an unfortunate, valuable lesson for all of us to learn and heade Allen advice. As have stated, my heart is broken.

Post# 572212 , Reply# 194   1/29/2012 at 18:04 (4,468 days old) by rp2813 (Sannazay)        

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I never had the opportunity to meet Terry, and clearly that is my loss.  I've waited to post here until I could get my hands on a prayer card from my dad's funeral back in 1997.  This is what we selected for the back of the card, and I think it's fairly appropriate for Terry:

 

Fill not your hearts with pain and sorrow,

But remember me in every tomorrow.

Remember the joy, the laughter, the smiles;

I've only gone to rest a little while.

Although my leaving causes pain and grief,

My going has eased my hurt and given me relief.

So dry your eyes and remember me,

Not as I am now, but as I used to be.

Because I will remember you all,

And look on with a smile.

Understand in your hearts,

I've only gone to rest a little while.

As long as I have the love of each of you,

I can live my life in the hearts of all of you.

 

Rest in peace surely doesn't apply here.  I think Terry would want no part of that scenario.


Post# 572223 , Reply# 195   1/29/2012 at 18:41 (4,468 days old) by perc-o-prince (Southboro, Mass)        
This is a poem that I read at my grandmothers funeral.

I think that it applies here just as well...

Gone From My Sight (author unknown)

I am standing upon the seashore. A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength, and I stand and watch her until at length she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come down to meet and mingle with each other. Then some one at my side says: "There! she's gone!" Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all. She is just as large in the mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side, and just as able to bear her load of living freight to the place of her destination. Her diminished size is in me, and not in her. And just at that moment, when some one at my side says: "There! she's gone!" there are other eyes that are watching for her coming and other voices ready to take up the glad shout, "There she comes!" And that is—dying.

This always brings me comfort in dealing with the loss of family and friends. I hope it will do the same for some of you :-)

Rich





Post# 572283 , Reply# 196   1/29/2012 at 21:06 (4,468 days old) by Dick_S. ()        
Totally shocked...

I was totally shocked to hear of Terry's passing.

He was a dear, kind, and loving soul and a joy to meet and converse with. I always looked forward to reading his posts as he was always so positive and always had something nice to say about the subject at hand. Always.

I will miss him very much.



Post# 572295 , Reply# 197   1/29/2012 at 21:47 (4,468 days old) by tbolt25 (Kentucky)        
something I would like to say as well

I've read a lot of these posts just now on Terry's passing-and it was very sad. I've never met him myself-but this is very saddening to hear that we've lost a dear appliance member, and everyone on here and Terry's family have my deepest sympathy.

Post# 572296 , Reply# 198   1/29/2012 at 21:47 (4,468 days old) by washerlover (The Big Island, Hawai’i)        

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I did not know Terry, and now wish I would have had the honor to have met him. My thoughts go out to Terry's family and friends.

Post# 572534 , Reply# 199   1/30/2012 at 22:03 (4,467 days old) by joelippard (Hickory)        


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Tonight I feel grieved...  at the loss of a man who was loved by so many, and whom I had conversed with via email and had hoped to someday meet.  I grieve for those who were close and are hurting.  Recently I too lost someone whom I worked closely with and loved -- it seems my emotions are close to the surface which really is not like me.  I hope that the way Terry lived his life as evidenced in the pages of this website would inspire us to work at emulating some of those finer qualities.


Post# 572708 , Reply# 200   1/31/2012 at 15:32 (4,466 days old) by franksdad (Greenville, South Carolina)        
My deepest condolences

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I had so hoped to meet this fine man one day.  Terry's genuine love and spirit shown thru in his posts.   


Post# 572716 , Reply# 201   1/31/2012 at 17:34 (4,466 days old) by lavamat_jon (UK)        
Our deepest condolences...

...from across the pond.  Another who has never met, but will miss the presence on these forums.

 

The overwhelming amount of love and admiration shown on here, even from fellow members who haven't met or known him personally, is testament to his kind nature.

 

May thoughts be with those who were close to him,

 

Jon & Jack


Post# 572723 , Reply# 202   1/31/2012 at 18:12 (4,466 days old) by gorenje (Slovenia)        

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Respect to him even if I haven't known him personally.

My condolences to Terry's family & friends.

Ingemar


Post# 572797 , Reply# 203   2/1/2012 at 04:36 (4,465 days old) by chestermikeuk (Rainhill *Home of the RailwayTrials* Merseyside,UK)        
Terry`s Funeral Service

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To all our friends attending Terrys Funeral Service this morning, Wednesday 1st February 2012 - "Thinking of you all, and wishing I could be there" -

We will all be with you in spirit, Mike



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Post# 572810 , Reply# 204   2/1/2012 at 06:33 (4,465 days old) by cycla-fabric (New Jersey (Northern))        

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Sorry to hear of the loss, I really didn't know him, but my condolences go out to his family and friends, he will be missed I am sure

Doug


Post# 572840 , Reply# 205   2/1/2012 at 09:41 (4,465 days old) by abcomatic (Bradford, Illinois)        

I was going to come to the funeral today with Dishwashercrazy(Mike) but I am having difficulties at home right now which prevented me from coming. My condolences. I never had a chance to meet Terry but he will be sorely missed. Gary

Post# 572874 , Reply# 206   2/1/2012 at 12:47 (4,465 days old) by mickeyd (Hamburg NY)        
Eulogy

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If I were there, and people were invited to speak, I'd say:

In any encounter, Terry was your most gracious host and you were his honored guest. Terry, there is really no one else like you.


Mike, those lilies are so beautiful.


Post# 572887 , Reply# 207   2/1/2012 at 14:13 (4,465 days old) by whitetub (Montreal, Canada)        

I did not know him personnaly, but I would like to express my sincere condolences to his family and friends.

As I was looking through the pictures, I noticed that he seemed to always be surrounded by friends who loved him, and shared the same passion for appliances.

I am sure you guys who knew him will miss him a lot.


Serge


Post# 572971 , Reply# 208   2/1/2012 at 20:20 (4,465 days old) by gansky1 (Omaha, The Home of the TV Dinner!)        

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Back tonight from Terry's funeral trip to Illinois. It was a terribly sad occasion for all of us there, and those who were unable to be there but the friendship and love that brought us all together helped us get through. We had a very good few days all together, remembering the great times we all shared with Terry. Lots of laughs, tears and love.

Fred S. and I put together a couple of display boards with all of the pictures that everyone posted here and in Vacuumland as well as a few others we collected from our files. There were far too many fun times to include everything over the last dozen years or so we've known Terry, but we were able to capture his joyous spirit at it's best. These were displayed at the funeral home and many of his friends and family really enjoyed seeing all the fun and happy times Terry had with all of us. After the service today, they were folded and placed in the casket with him, along with the printed comments from both threads so the outpouring of emotion that we felt for Terry will be with him forever.


Post# 572972 , Reply# 209   2/1/2012 at 20:21 (4,465 days old) by gansky1 (Omaha, The Home of the TV Dinner!)        

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Post# 572993 , Reply# 210   2/1/2012 at 22:00 (4,465 days old) by A440 ()        

Greg what a wonderful idea you guys came up with! You and Fred did a great job with the memories board.
I am sure that you are all emotionally drained.
Terry has been on my mind everyday since his passing.
Brent


Post# 572998 , Reply# 211   2/1/2012 at 22:16 (4,465 days old) by Unimatic1140 (Minneapolis)        

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Fred and I just arrived home tonight. We have been in Chicago since last Saturday morning. It was extremely therapeutic to be around such close friends in this sad time. There was a wonderful turnout from both the washer side of the family as well as the vacuum side of the family. We were fortunate to meet Terry's friends from Danville, IL -- with whom he used to teach, and often traveled with during retirement. It was nice meeting Terry's family as well. They all knew how much Terry meant to all of us, and we knew how much Terry meant to them as well. We will all be just fine, but it will never be the same without Terry.

Post# 573011 , Reply# 212   2/1/2012 at 23:05 (4,465 days old) by peteski50 (New York)        
Terry!

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Greg - Thank you and Fred for making these beautiful boards.
I just wish I could have been their. I have Terry on my mind a lot. And it is so true it will never be the same without Terry! I know Terry will always be with us in Spirit!
Peter


Post# 573013 , Reply# 213   2/1/2012 at 23:10 (4,465 days old) by alr2903 (TN)        

You  Gentlemen were honorable in the remembrance of your friend, I was happy to see the picture boards that celebrated Terry's life. I am sure, you guy's showing up,  meant alot to his family.  arthur


Post# 573086 , Reply# 214   2/2/2012 at 13:10 (4,464 days old) by kevin313 (Detroit, Michigan)        

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I am so sorry to hear of this tremendous loss. I only knew Terry from exchanges on Super and he always had nice and positive thoughts to contribute.

My condolences to all of you who knew him and loved him. I hope the warm memories of your dear friend Terry bring you comfort.

Kevin


Post# 573222 , Reply# 215   2/3/2012 at 02:57 (4,463 days old) by jetcone (Schenectady-Home of Calrods,Monitor Tops,Toroid Transformers)        
Numb, exhausted and drained

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and those are the easy feelings. The loss is great for us but as I saw it was even greater for his beloved nephew. To be there for Terry was an honor, to be there for his nephew and everyone else was bitter joy for me, and I would do it all over in a heartbeat. All of us supported each other in such a loving way through it all that I feel we came away as one powerful force of love for Terry.  And I think everyone who attended came away with a sense of awe at how many people our friend had touched in his brief time here. 

I spoke with several of Terry's fellow work mates. One was Geneva, she ran the kitchen at the School in Danville, she said Terry used to come into the cafeteria and >>Load the dishwasher! She had seen the pictures of Terry loading Fred's dishwasher on the boards and then we both said at the exact same moment"That was Terry" it was a real connect.

 

I hope all of you out there can get a sense of that awe from Terry's thread. 


Terry-on!

 


Post# 573281 , Reply# 216   2/3/2012 at 10:13 (4,463 days old) by mixfinder ()        
Generous With His Gift Of Acceptance

Terry was the first to welcome me to the club, my first Secret Santa exchange and among the most friendly and inclusive when I attended my first wash in. We can all identify the icons of this group, the founding fathers and those with the most prestigious collections. They can also be the most parsimonios in sharing and posting. Terry was there for everyone regardless, praising, encouraging, defending and deflecting if we got over zealous in our posts. We all rememeber Terry's great food at Roger's in Tucson 2008, Greg's in Omaha and the pictures of Fred and Terry waxing the kitchen floor in Minneapolis before beginning the food preparations for the vacuum convention; total commitment and giving were the essence of who Terry was. We saw more evidence of his zany, happy and witty side on the Vac-Land site. He was a complex man of wit, intellect and care that all blended into a one man symphony that could fill a room and out perform any negativity. I'll never perc another pot of coffee without a tug at my heart strings remembering Terry's collection of percolators.

Post# 573498 , Reply# 217   2/4/2012 at 08:51 (4,462 days old) by wmlask (Spring Grove, IL)        

I am so sad to read this horrible news. Terry was such a kind and friendly individual. He will be greatly missed.


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