I don't think you belong in jail but I do think some do a better job of scraping than you.  I put some items in the machine that have stuck on, dried or burned on soil  like cheese and that cannot be easily removed.  On the other hand I use a silicon spatula or paper towel to slide soft materials off of most  items.  My reasoning is that the DW is not a garbage disposer not even the ones that have a soft food grinder. Time has showed us that even Dw with soft food grinders have soil screens -not easily accessed by owners -  that must be cleaned. 

Have also learned that fiber supplements like Konsyl will cause problems.  This stuff is mixed with water, juice or used in smoothies and increases fiber in your diet that's the good.  The bad is that utensils, blender bowls, and glasses that come in contact with the fiber are left gritty; then when placed into the Dw with hot water the grit turns into a thick gel slime. The circulation pump on my Dw has no trouble pulling water through the gel covered filters, but the drain pump is not able to extract all of the water through this mess.  So after having one drain fault, finding gel/slime all over everything, having to get on my knees and suck the water out of the sump with a turkey baster,  then wipe slime off of everything, -  I wash anything that comes in contact with this fiber by hand.

I rarely even look at my filters..... until I started using this fiber stuff. YUCK!